Episode 81 of "Gilmore girls"
s04e16 The Reigning Lorelai

The rift between Emily and Richard widens when he goes on a golf date with clients instead of accompanying his wife to the funeral of her best friend... Doyle goes on a theft and plagiarism rant... Trix dies suddenly... Michel offers Lorelai a hug in consolation, which weirds them out so much that they agree not to share any more warm and fuzzy moments... stricken with grief and guilt, Richard is inconsolable... Emily calls it quits on arranging Trix's funeral and drops everything in her daughter's lap after finding a letter in which her mother-in-law pleads with her son on the eve of his wedding to Emily to marry Pennilyn instead... Luke and Nicole have all of Stars Hollow listening in and reading lips as they quarrel... worried about her parents and frantic over fulfilling Trix's exacting requirements for her funeral, Lorelai has a meltdown while shopping for Trix's funereal undies... after the service, cousin Marilyn (who bears an uncanny resemblance to Trix) regales family and friends with tales of Lorelai the First... Emily and Richard finally reach out to each other as he defies one of his mother's last wishes for the sake of his wife.